Fr. Rob's Weekly Column


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March 17, 2026
Dear Friends, For three weekends now we have been engaged in the Gospel of John, reflecting upon the Samaritan woman at the well, the man born blind, and this weekend, Jesus raising Lazarus!!! These three passages from sacred scripture are some of my most beloved. To drink the water Jesus offers and to have never to thirst again…I pray to accept His gift. To reflect and pray our Lenten theme, “Change of Heart” and recognize where I need to continually open my eyes, widen my vision, and become more like my Lord among the people I live among, …is the sight I desire. To know the life I seek is the journey with Jesus that leads me to salvation…is a grace that encourages my mind, heart, and spirit to keep the pace with Himself who walks beside me. How far have you and I come since Ash Wednesday? How are your “hearts” doing? Any hardness becoming softer? Any realizations where we can love more? A week from now we will be taking steps alongside Jesus into His/Our Holy Week. I hope you will plan on joining our parishes for all the liturgical opportunities planned. Check your postcard mailed to you before Lent began, our website, weekly email, and bulletin for times and locations of our services. And do pray for our Catechumens and Candidates that will be fully received into the Roman Catholic Church at the Easter Vigil. I really hope you will come to the Easter Vigil and support these wonderful individuals. Blessings to all, Father Rob
March 10, 2026
Dear Friends, Our parishes have a wonderful group of individuals who are well on their way to be fully accepted into the Catholic Church at our Easter Vigil. These individuals recently went to Sacred Heart Cathedral to celebrate the Rite of Election. During this celebration of prayer Bishop Matano acknowledged each Catechumen and Candidate. Last weekend these sisters and brothers of ours celebrated their First Scrutiny. For parishes, like ours, who have candidates for the OCIA (Order of Christian Initiation for Adults) and OCIC (Order of Christian Initiation for Children) there are three Scrutinies as part of their prayerful preparations. All three Scrutinies are connected to the weekend Gospel. The purpose of these Scrutinies is to purify the hearts and minds of the Elect, helping them to turn away from sin and toward a deeper, more intimate union with Christ. These are moments of intense prayer for protection and spiritual strength. The Third, Fourth, and Fifth weekends of Lent, our liturgies are tied to specific Gospels that highlight Jesus’ power to heal and transform. Last weekend we met the Samaritan woman at the well. She encountered Jesus as Living Water. This weekend, we have the healing of the man born blind. This Gospel proclaims Jesus as Light of the World. Next weekend, we witness Jesus raising Lazarus from death. Here Jesus is recognized as Resurrection and Life! All three of these Scrutinies are not only meant for the Elect, but also for us as well. We are invited to participate in these rites to reflect on own life-long need for conversion and to renew our commitment to living a Christian life. This is a prayerful and blessed time to have a “Change of Heart” in preparing for Easter! May we continue to pray for our OCIA and OCIC sisters and brothers in their final preparations: Jake & Kate DiOrio, Devon Forrest, Ellen & George Gardiner, Lila & Vance Gilroy, Rosemary Kinney, Abigael & Haleigh LaRocca, Josh Miller, Sarah Moore, David Rivera, Quinn Thrash and Michael Soltow. And, let us remember one another too in prayer as our family of faith grows! Blessings to everyone, Father Rob
March 3, 2026
Dear Friends, Reflecting upon, and examining our lives, we are now into our third week of Lent addressing where a change of heart is being invited of us. Two Sundays ago, we encountered the devil tempting Jesus in the desert. Jesus was led by the Spirit into the desert. The Spirit of God remained with Jesus for these forty days. The devil tempts Jesus, but the Lord will let anything come between him and his father. Last Sunday we had the passage close to our hearts of the Transfiguration of Jesus. This “mountain top” vision was a powerful prayer experience for Peter, James, and John. These invited men coming to this moment have now seen Jesus for who He really is! It makes me recall what “mountain top” experiences have I seen? How has my vision been able to see the Lord for who he really is and bring it to the depths of my existence? This Sunday, our first reading from the Old Testament has the Israelites in their desert complaining because they do not have water to drink. Grumbling to Moses they question, where is God in all this? Moses calls out to God and God provides. He instructs Moses to go strike the rock and water will be provided. Indeed, it comes forth, God is ever present to the people. Their hearts will change for the time being. And on this very weekend we meet the Samaritan woman at the well. There Jesus sits and waits for this individual. Jesus speaks to her with kindness and patience. She listens to him, asks questions, and responds to his invitation to drink the water he’ll provide that will never make her thirsty again. She was ready to move from material needs to spiritual (Change of Heart). The third week of Lent is before us. How have you been doing with temptations, prayer on mountaintops and knowing God is present to you providing what is lasting, Have you been seeing changes in your heart for the good? Are you feeling and recognizing a deeper invitation to be closer to Jesus? Moses struck a rock and water came forth. How is God striking our hearts this lent. What is coming forth from ourselves? Is there life giving water that satisfies our spiritual thirsts? Is there still any hardness of our hearts attached to material temptations that we really need to address and be honest about with God? We still have weeks ahead of us before Holy Week. Let us pray together that we will make the most of this time for a blessed Easter. I ask you in your prayer to also remember our sisters and brothers who will become one, holy, catholic, and apostolic among us at the Easter Vigil! They are a beautiful group of people. How blessed we are to have them share faith among us and for us to do the same for them. To a “Change of Heart” and continued blessings, Father Rob
February 24, 2026
Dear Friends, This weekend presents to us, in our Gospel, the Transfiguration. Matthew 17 is particularly poignant as one of our parishes is named after this event. It is also important for all of the faithful to reflect upon as we go forth seeking hopefully a “Change of Heart” this Lenten season. The custom of reading this gospel passage near the beginning of Lent may have come from the ancient tradition which held that the transfiguration of Jesus took place forty days before Good Friday. The response of “It is good for us to be here” carries right to this present moment for you and me. It is good that we gather together to reflect on the word of the Lord and be nourished with the Bread of Life, Jesus Himself. As Saint Augustine said, “may we become what we receive.” How is your Lenten journey going so far? What is happening in the interior of your lives and within your heart? Jesus often referred to individuals with “hardened hearts.” He cited scribes, pharisees, and even His own disciples. Some of these moments occurred when He healed on the Sabbath (Mark 3:5), after walking on the water (Mark 6:52), and His post-resurrection appearances (Mark 6:14) Are we possibly discovering any hardness of hearts in relationship to belonging to Jesus? After all, if we belong to Jesus, we are to love as He loves. How are we doing with loving as Him? Are there any issues we need to address honestly? Is He telling us something we need to address in the interior, depth of our very self, soul, and heart? Jesus is addressed in the New Testament as the rock, our spiritual foundation. Like in the Old Testament when Moses addressed the grumbling Israelites thirst in the desert, striking the rock as directed by God to satisfy their thirst, so too we read in 1 Corinthians 10:4, that the people ”…drank from the spiritual Rock that followed them, and that Rock was Christ.” Jesus is the spiritual life and foundation of faith. Jesus as our “rock” is a prominent metaphor for His strength and protection. When we accept Jesus as our secure refuge and foundation, we better understand and address where we need changes of our own hearts. May we take time to in our personal prayer and communal prayer these remaining weeks of lent to prepare well what it means to belong to Jesus. May we drink from the “spiritual rock”, our foundation in Him, and continue journey alongside our brother to Jerusalem. Let us know indeed it is good for us to be here with one another and prepare for the eternal life that lies ahead. With faith and blessings, Father Rob
February 17, 2026
Dear Friends, Our Lenten journey began this past Wednesday. So many of us gathered at our masses and services to mark our foreheads with ashes. These ashes remind us of our mortality and to renew our lives by repentance and living/embracing the Good News of Jesus Christ! Indeed, our six weeks of preparation leading us to another Easter Sunday invite us to a “Change of Heart.” The scriptures we heard on Ash Wednesday, the ones that are placed before us this weekend, and all the sacred texts leading up to Easter invite us to reflect on our Baptismal lives. Where is the Holy Spirit inviting us to go deep inside our very hearts and souls to address a necessary “Change of Heart?” This Sunday we heard a call out asking the Lord to be merciful for we have sinned. Jesus, sinless, had temptations in the dessert wilderness. The devil presented several temptations before the Lord, but He did not submit to them, Jesus had the strength and prayer to keep God the Father before all else. You and I have constant temptations placed before us. How many times in our lifetime have we fallen prey to them, the ways of the world and have let decisions and choices be embraced over choosing the ways of Jesus? What temptations can we honestly see before us right now that are interrupting our full commitment in following Jesus? Addressing them is to focus on how we will have a “Change of Heart.” I hope you can set yourselves aside for personal prayer, worship in our faith communities and avail yourselves to reconciliation in the coming days. Also, check our websites, weekly emails and bulletins for special Lenten opportunities our parishes are offering. You also should have received a postcard listing several of the offerings we have leading up to Easter Sunday. May we keep one another in prayer these next several weeks that our lives will be deeper in faith with Jesus. Blessings, Father Rob
February 11, 2026
Dear Friends, This fresh New Year has certainly given us a winter season we haven’t experienced in quite some time. Hopefully, everyone kept warm, comfortable and safe last weekend. We speak about how cold it is and how we are cold but let’s be grateful we have appropriate clothing to put on, warm homes, schools, places of work and places we frequent. I am mindful, as all of you are, of our sisters and brothers who are not as fortunate as ourselves. Thank you for your donations of winter clothing, food donations and monetary support to the wonderful services in our area who attend to those living on the streets and those in residence at our warming shelters like the House of Mercy and Open Door Mission. May we continue to support these needed shelters and the great folks who attend to the vulnerable in our communities. Last weekend the Msgr. Schnacky Players put on their final performances of this year’s Melodrama, “The Last Curtain Call.” The production was written by our own parishioner Patrick Ashley. Patrick had the support of other parishioners and folks from the wider community to offer this play. Some members of our Parish Staff, including myself, attended last Friday night’s play. The weather challenged some to attend and others not to come out. This was on top of many who wanted to be there but were sick with colds, the flu, etc. Nevertheless, those of us who were in the audience had an enjoyable time. Thank you to Patrick and all those who came together to make the 45th production such a great success! This coming week we will begin a new liturgical season. Ash Wednesday is just around the corner. The theme for this year is “Change of Heart.” As you look and pray over the next six weeks of Lenten Scriptures you will understand the theme. The scriptures place before us words to contemplate like hardness of heart, compassion, temptation, sin, hardship, seeing God as our rock of life, living water, moving from darkness to light, graves opening up, and so much more. As we come together in prayer and our liturgical celebrations may these coming weeks bring us to the fullness of life preparing for Easter. Please check our bulletin, website, and weekly emails for the services offered Ash Wednesday and throughout Lent. May we pray for each other that we may examine in our personal lives where a “Change of Heart” will deepen our relationship with Jesus. Blessings, Father Rob
February 3, 2026
Dear Friends, Do any of you remember the call out expression, “What would Jesus do?” This very moment, in your life and my own, do we reflect and live what we can honestly acknowledge, what would Jesus do? Are we honest with what Jesus has revealed to us? Let’s look at the Ten Commandments. Let’s look at the two greatest: “Love your God with your whole heart, soul, and being” and “Love your neighbor as yourself”. Neighbor. Hmm. Are you thinking of the story of the Good Samaritan? What about Jesus telling us to love our enemies and pray for our persecutors? Last weekend, our Gospel was Matthew 5:1-12. Folks love the Beatitudes and I certainly believe we can not reflect on them enough. How about, “Blessed are the peacemakers, they will be called children of God.” Are you a peacemaker? We are in the midst of very troubling times , not only in our world, but right here in our nation. Do you want peace? The Peace of Jesus? Another saying in my memory bank is, if you want peace, work for justice. WOW! Justice. Peace. Love. No one should lose their life living for justice, peace and love in the image of Jesus Christ. We live in a nation and world of diversity. And diversity is good when we, like Jesus, are open to seeing the goodness and blessings in all people. Jesus started out in a small circle but expanded it by saying I need to move on to others, all people. Today, yesterday, and so many yesterdays in the past, people have brought their prejudices to alienate, persecute, and hurt the Body of Christ. In Jesus’ own day, he was confronted by His faith and politics. He ended up on the cross because of His viewpoints. We talk about separation of church and state, but let’s face it, if we are truly living our Catholicism, there is no separation. Do we not base our lives totally on the Gospel as we profess? We are called to be disciples of faith living the justice, love and peace of our Lord. Not every moment is so peaceful. Look at the scriptures. Jesus challenged injustices. Jesus spoke out and Jesus gave His life for the salvation of all his beloved sisters and brothers of all races and nations. We have been challenged, have we not? All life is sacred, Yes! From the womb to the tomb. All life is sacred and no one, should be assassinated because of their ideologies: John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Robert F. Kennedy, Archbishop Oscar Romero, Charlie Kirk, Renee Good, Alex Pretti and so many others we hold in our prayers and thoughts. This is a time where we as church have been called out by leadership of Cardinal’s Blasé Cupich of Chicago, Robert McElroy of Washington, D.C., and Joseph Tobin, of Newark, New Jersey, and Pope Leo to be voices who speak up for the dignity and blessings of our sisters and brothers who live rightly in our nation and world. Please check out these Cardinal’s words if you have not already. May our hearts be open and not hardened to where we are to love everyone. Yes, everyone. Blessings, Father Rob
January 27, 2026
Dear Friends, Thanks to Father Rob for lending us his bulletin article this week! We were recently blessed to accompany fifteen of our parish teens to the National Catholic Youth Conference in Indianapolis, where we spent three days with 16,000 other Catholic teens and an hour in conversation with Pope Leo! If you were blessed to attend Mass at our parishes this weekend, you got to hear the witness of some of our amazing youth and catch their contagious spirit. In case you missed it, please check out the livestream recording of their Mass talks on our website. And if you’d like to hear even more from our NCYC teens, this week’s episode of our Faith Break podcast is devoted to interviews with our group. They have many beautiful stories to share about how they saw God during our pilgrimage and deeply desire to make the love of God they felt at NCYC real to everyone back home. NCYC can make a huge impact on the faith life of young people, as our parishes have seen over the many years we have participated. Thank you so much for supporting our teens and providing the opportunity for them to have this life-changing experience. It’s not only an investment in the future of our church, but it is bearing great fruit in our parish family today. In Gratitude for Many Blessings, Karen Luke and Anne Gallagher
January 20, 2026
Dear Friends, Well last Saturday, even with some sunshine, cold wind and snow these moments did not drive out the hearty Western New Yorkers to Mass. What drives folks out to Mass? Priorities??? The 4 PM Mass was so much lighter in attendance than usual. The 5:30 PM Mass which is not always heavy in attendance had 30 people coming together in worship. Note the photograph of these faithful 30 individuals. SO, I understand the drive of the loyal fans for the Buffalo Bills. I also understand that we hoped they be the winners of this high altitude game. They weren’t. I have said over and over again when you play these games, any game, there is a winner and, yes, a loser. No one wants to be the loser. But that is the reality. My friends who are more versed on football rules and such have made endless comments about the loss for the Bills. I wish they won but they didn’t. This past Sunday a parishioner wore a shirt that said continue to “BILLIEVE in the Bills.” I shared at the end of Mass, pointing out this shirt, let us, the faithful of Jesus, put as much energy and faith in continuing to believe in our Lord. There’s a place around the corner from our church, that I often refer to as the new mega church. It’s not a church but a sports arena. I refer to it as a new “church” because that’s where many folks now “worship.” Yep, the times are different. SO, I thank all of you who come to worship alongside me, our Parish Staff and fellow parishioners. We always refer to our faith as a mystery. It is for sure. I do believe, and yes, BILLIEVE, that miracles can happen. But please join me in believing in the miracles of being present to Jesus Christ, our brother. You may desire to always win. That’s understandable, but know when Jesus is your “quarterback” , you will be winning in the glory of your baptism! Blessings and Joys, Father Rob
January 13, 2026
Dear Friends, On the actual Feast of the Epiphany, January 6th, I had arrived around 5:45 AM to celebrate the 6:45 AM Mass at Transfiguration. While I was preparing for Mass I received a text from a dear friend who shared we have a new Bishop. I thought, is she serious? I knew she was awake, so I called her. Yes, she was right! We have a new Bishop as everyone knows at this time. The Most Reverend John S. Bonnici is our bishop-designate. For so long folks have been asking me when will we have a new bishop. Well, I can say our new bishop will be installed as the tenth Bishop of the Diocese of Rochester on March 19th, the Feast of Saint Joseph. Our new Bishop is succeeding Bishop Matano. Bishop Matano came to Rochester in November 2013 after Bishop Matthew H. Clark retired. We certainly thank Bishop Matano for his presence these 16 years for dedicated service to our diocese. Our prayers will continue to support him. Bishop Matano has shared he will continue to live in our beloved diocese. Our new Bishop is a native of New York City. His parents, were immigrants to the United States. His father, John, was from Malta. His mother, Gertrude, was from Romania. After World War II , his parents left and came to this part of the world. They met, got married, settling in Toronto, then they and his sister moved to New York City, where he was born. It is an exciting time and we can only imagine what is going through the mind, heart, soul, and prayer of our new Bishop. May we keep Bishop Bonnici in our prayer as we prepare to welcome him to our diocese and also keep in our prayer Bishop Matano, for his years of dedicated and prayerful leadership. I have known five Bishops in my lifetime. They are Bishop Kearney (who confirmed me), Bishop Sheen (who I was an altar boy with), Bishop Hogan, Bishop Clark ( who ordained me), and Bishop Matano. I look forward to the days ahead of getting to know Bishop Bonnici! Blessings to all, Father Rob