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Dear Friends, Do any of you remember the call out expression, “What would Jesus do?” This very moment, in your life and my own, do we reflect and live what we can honestly acknowledge, what would Jesus do? Are we honest with what Jesus has revealed to us? Let’s look at the Ten Commandments. Let’s look at the two greatest: “Love your God with your whole heart, soul, and being” and “Love your neighbor as yourself”. Neighbor. Hmm. Are you thinking of the story of the Good Samaritan? What about Jesus telling us to love our enemies and pray for our persecutors? Last weekend, our Gospel was Matthew 5:1-12. Folks love the Beatitudes and I certainly believe we can not reflect on them enough. How about, “Blessed are the peacemakers, they will be called children of God.” Are you a peacemaker? We are in the midst of very troubling times , not only in our world, but right here in our nation. Do you want peace? The Peace of Jesus? Another saying in my memory bank is, if you want peace, work for justice. WOW! Justice. Peace. Love. No one should lose their life living for justice, peace and love in the image of Jesus Christ. We live in a nation and world of diversity. And diversity is good when we, like Jesus, are open to seeing the goodness and blessings in all people. Jesus started out in a small circle but expanded it by saying I need to move on to others, all people. Today, yesterday, and so many yesterdays in the past, people have brought their prejudices to alienate, persecute, and hurt the Body of Christ. In Jesus’ own day, he was confronted by His faith and politics. He ended up on the cross because of His viewpoints. We talk about separation of church and state, but let’s face it, if we are truly living our Catholicism, there is no separation. Do we not base our lives totally on the Gospel as we profess? We are called to be disciples of faith living the justice, love and peace of our Lord. Not every moment is so peaceful. Look at the scriptures. Jesus challenged injustices. Jesus spoke out and Jesus gave His life for the salvation of all his beloved sisters and brothers of all races and nations. We have been challenged, have we not? All life is sacred, Yes! From the womb to the tomb. All life is sacred and no one, should be assassinated because of their ideologies: John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Robert F. Kennedy, Archbishop Oscar Romero, Charlie Kirk, Renee Good, Alex Pretti and so many others we hold in our prayers and thoughts. This is a time where we as church have been called out by leadership of Cardinal’s Blasé Cupich of Chicago, Robert McElroy of Washington, D.C., and Joseph Tobin, of Newark, New Jersey, and Pope Leo to be voices who speak up for the dignity and blessings of our sisters and brothers who live rightly in our nation and world. Please check out these Cardinal’s words if you have not already. May our hearts be open and not hardened to where we are to love everyone. Yes, everyone. Blessings, Father Rob
Dear Friends, Thanks to Father Rob for lending us his bulletin article this week! We were recently blessed to accompany fifteen of our parish teens to the National Catholic Youth Conference in Indianapolis, where we spent three days with 16,000 other Catholic teens and an hour in conversation with Pope Leo! If you were blessed to attend Mass at our parishes this weekend, you got to hear the witness of some of our amazing youth and catch their contagious spirit. In case you missed it, please check out the livestream recording of their Mass talks on our website. And if you’d like to hear even more from our NCYC teens, this week’s episode of our Faith Break podcast is devoted to interviews with our group. They have many beautiful stories to share about how they saw God during our pilgrimage and deeply desire to make the love of God they felt at NCYC real to everyone back home. NCYC can make a huge impact on the faith life of young people, as our parishes have seen over the many years we have participated. Thank you so much for supporting our teens and providing the opportunity for them to have this life-changing experience. It’s not only an investment in the future of our church, but it is bearing great fruit in our parish family today. In Gratitude for Many Blessings, Karen Luke and Anne Gallagher

Dear Friends, Well last Saturday, even with some sunshine, cold wind and snow these moments did not drive out the hearty Western New Yorkers to Mass. What drives folks out to Mass? Priorities??? The 4 PM Mass was so much lighter in attendance than usual. The 5:30 PM Mass which is not always heavy in attendance had 30 people coming together in worship. Note the photograph of these faithful 30 individuals. SO, I understand the drive of the loyal fans for the Buffalo Bills. I also understand that we hoped they be the winners of this high altitude game. They weren’t. I have said over and over again when you play these games, any game, there is a winner and, yes, a loser. No one wants to be the loser. But that is the reality. My friends who are more versed on football rules and such have made endless comments about the loss for the Bills. I wish they won but they didn’t. This past Sunday a parishioner wore a shirt that said continue to “BILLIEVE in the Bills.” I shared at the end of Mass, pointing out this shirt, let us, the faithful of Jesus, put as much energy and faith in continuing to believe in our Lord. There’s a place around the corner from our church, that I often refer to as the new mega church. It’s not a church but a sports arena. I refer to it as a new “church” because that’s where many folks now “worship.” Yep, the times are different. SO, I thank all of you who come to worship alongside me, our Parish Staff and fellow parishioners. We always refer to our faith as a mystery. It is for sure. I do believe, and yes, BILLIEVE, that miracles can happen. But please join me in believing in the miracles of being present to Jesus Christ, our brother. You may desire to always win. That’s understandable, but know when Jesus is your “quarterback” , you will be winning in the glory of your baptism! Blessings and Joys, Father Rob
Dear Friends, On the actual Feast of the Epiphany, January 6th, I had arrived around 5:45 AM to celebrate the 6:45 AM Mass at Transfiguration. While I was preparing for Mass I received a text from a dear friend who shared we have a new Bishop. I thought, is she serious? I knew she was awake, so I called her. Yes, she was right! We have a new Bishop as everyone knows at this time. The Most Reverend John S. Bonnici is our bishop-designate. For so long folks have been asking me when will we have a new bishop. Well, I can say our new bishop will be installed as the tenth Bishop of the Diocese of Rochester on March 19th, the Feast of Saint Joseph. Our new Bishop is succeeding Bishop Matano. Bishop Matano came to Rochester in November 2013 after Bishop Matthew H. Clark retired. We certainly thank Bishop Matano for his presence these 16 years for dedicated service to our diocese. Our prayers will continue to support him. Bishop Matano has shared he will continue to live in our beloved diocese. Our new Bishop is a native of New York City. His parents, were immigrants to the United States. His father, John, was from Malta. His mother, Gertrude, was from Romania. After World War II , his parents left and came to this part of the world. They met, got married, settling in Toronto, then they and his sister moved to New York City, where he was born. It is an exciting time and we can only imagine what is going through the mind, heart, soul, and prayer of our new Bishop. May we keep Bishop Bonnici in our prayer as we prepare to welcome him to our diocese and also keep in our prayer Bishop Matano, for his years of dedicated and prayerful leadership. I have known five Bishops in my lifetime. They are Bishop Kearney (who confirmed me), Bishop Sheen (who I was an altar boy with), Bishop Hogan, Bishop Clark ( who ordained me), and Bishop Matano. I look forward to the days ahead of getting to know Bishop Bonnici! Blessings to all, Father Rob
Dear Friends, I’m thinking of a song Carol Burnett sang to close her weekly television show. Part of the song would go like this, “it seems we just got started and before you know it, comes the time to say so long.” The Christmas season comes to a liturgical end this weekend. For me, it does seem like we just started and here we are ending the season celebration with the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord. This weekend at our masses we will renew our own baptismal promises and be blessed with Holy Water. As the baptism of the Lord is noted in each of the Gospels, it signifies the beginning of Jesus’ public ministry. For you and I this weekend, it is a time to acknowledge our own baptism and how we share the Good News of Jesus Christ by our “public ministry.” How do we live out our baptismal commitment in witnessing to the faith we profess? What do we acknowledge in the life of Jesus? What do we take hold of and live out as He did among all people? I received many Christmas cards and well wishes these past few weeks. I am grateful for all your goodness to me, your prayers and support as we share our faith with one another. One card I received expressed these words, “Every time a hand reaches out to help another…that is Christmas. Every time someone puts conflict aside and strives for understanding… that is Christmas. Every time people forget their differences and realize their love for each other… that is Christmas. May this Christmas bring our world closer to a spirit of caring, closer to the blessing of peace.” These words remind me of what it is to live our Baptism among one another We will conclude the Christmas season and begin the rest of the liturgical year. May we go forth living the life of Jesus Christ and find we desire being one, holy, catholic and apostolic. Again, thank you for all your cards, gifts and most importantly, living our faith joyfully among each other. Blessings, Father Rob
Dear Friends, We are exiting the Christmas season with the Epiphany of the Lord. Next week we will celebrate the Baptism of our Lord, and then return to Ordinary Time. Ordinary. What does that mean to you? Does it mean something that is plain and simple, something you experience every day? We are bombarded by so much, good and bad, in our fast-paced society; do we seek out what is ordinary and good in this extraordinary time we live in? Do we see the divinity of Jesus in the people we meet in our ordinary life? Wise Men and Women See God in the Simple Things If you’re on social media, you have probably seen a meme going around that features this quote: “God has a plan for your life. The enemy has a plan for your life. Be ready for both. Just be wise enough to know which one to battle and which one to embrace.” There were certainly two competing plans for the Magi: God’s and Herod’s. And, wise as they supposedly were, it wasn’t entirely easy for the Magi to discern which was which. After all, Herod posed as a friend. He offered the Magi hospitality and kindness. Though the Gospel doesn’t say so, he probably flattered them and appealed to every moral weakness he could observe in them. In his palace, they must have felt great physical comfort — rest and tables of plenty on what was an otherwise long and treacherous journey. But if the Magi were honest with themselves, I’ll bet they would have admitted that, regardless of Herod’s charm, they felt a gnawing sense of doubt while in his presence. When they looked upon the Christ Child, born in a stable without any of the comforts of the world or protections of wealth, they probably felt the opposite. They probably felt safe. The Magi were lucky enough to have the right plan spelled out for them in a dream, but for the rest of us, it’s enough to remember this: God’s plan is often the one that leads us to places of great simplicity, great humility and great love. Let’s have the wisdom to view power with suspicion, and innocence with admiration. Tracy Earl Welliver, MTS ©LPi I hope you continue to find the love and peace of Christ in our ordinary days! Blessings, Fr. Rob
Dear Friends, I hope you and your loved ones had a beautiful Christmas celebration and continue to experience joy during these 12 days of Christmas through the Epiphany of our Lord. This week we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. What memories do you have of your childhood and the challenges your family faced? What memories and traditions might you be creating with your children over the holidays and every day? I thought you would enjoy this reflection from Fr. John Muir on his family, the Holy Family and perhaps your family. When I was ten, my dad gathered our family around the table in small-town Vermont and told us we were moving to the big desert city of Phoenix, Arizona. We were leaving behind family, friends, and everything familiar. None of us knew what to expect. But something beautiful happened. As we made the move together, our family grew closer. In retrospect, I’m amazed at my parents’ courage to go on that adventure. Even as a kid I realized our family found, in that challenge, a deeper unity and mutual love. In today’s Gospel, Joseph is told: “Rise, take the child and his mother, and flee…” (Matthew 2:13, 20). First to Egypt, then later to Israel. The Holy Family is frequently challenged to move and change, to adapt to God’s will for them, in order to find safety in the midst of threat. It’s not just an idiosyncratic story about survival. It’s a spiritual pattern for all of us. Every Christian family is called to be a kind of sanctuary, especially in a world full of noise, busyness, and fear. May I make a practical application for us? The Lord’s Day, Sunday, is perhaps the most practical way we imitate this dynamic we see in Joseph and his family. Sunday is not meant to be just like every other day, filled with errands and stress. It’s meant to be a day set apart; a holy “escape” into rest, worship, joy, and peace. A day to rise, take your family, and flee, into God’s presence. — Father John Muir ©LPi May we all flee into God’s presence at Mass, whether it is the weekday or weekend. I wish all of you a happy and healthy New Year. Blessings, Fr. Rob
MERRY CHRISTMAS! We all pray that your Advent has been full of faith and HOPE , and that you have found PEACE along the way despite the busy pace of the season. We are filled with JOY from being your staff members, and LOVE working with each other and serving the needs of our parishioners and our community. May the joy and wonder of Christmas be with you all year. We wish everyone a happy and healthy 2026. God Bless! Rob, Mike, Jeff, Margie, Eric, Ben, Anne, Shauna, Bob, Dan, Meg, Karen, Pam, Katie, Nancy and Sue
Dear Friends, The third weekend of Advent is referred to as Gaudete Sunday! This Sunday is a day of rejoicing within the penitential season of Advent, named from the Latin word for “rejoice.” Our celebration will be marked with the lighting of the pink candle on our Advent wreath, which signifies a foretaste of the joy of Christ’s coming at Christmas and His second coming. The day’s readings and themes emphasize hope and joyful anticipation, even amidst life’s challenges. Isaiah the great prophet sets out our hope in the one who is coming. James counsels patience in the face of delay, offering us a spirit of waiting and expectation. Matthew proclaims how John the Baptizer is praised by Jesus for his way of life and focus on the message of God, which allowed him to be seen as the forerunner of Jesus’ own message. Our beautiful season of Advent is coming soon to a close. May we all take time amid all we have to do and want to do to prepare for acknowledging the true meaning of Christmas. I know I must remind myself, like each of you, to take a breath with all the demands upon us and center on the birth of our Lord. I look forward to celebrating with you these last days of Advent and the Christmas season! Blessings, Father Rob
Dear Friends, I still have a handwritten calendar. I have an iPhone that I still could learn about its functions. I still have deadlines that come at me quickly, particularly this time of year from bulletin publishers and others. I never wanted to be a proofreader. As a Staff, everyone is given the opportunity to proofread the communication that is forthcoming from our office, me included. Oh, I cringe at that task. So, I was ahead of myself by a week and didn’t catch it (nor did any proofreaders) that I was ahead of myself with last week’s bulletin, parish email, etc. It’s Advent. I love this liturgical season and I try to slow down, encourage others to do the same in the midst of what these four weeks ( if actually we get a full four weeks) to just “be” and prepare for what is most essential, the celebration and recognition of what it means to have the Son of God come into our midst. With deadlines, and other responsibilities, I said I wasn’t going to be with you the First Sunday of Advent. Update, I was and I am not with you this Second Sunday of Advent. This weekend we focus on peace. I need it. I’m going to go all out and think you need it as well. Yes, the Peace of Christ that brings to the world relational peace to all. SO, please bear with me and I will repeat what I shared in the last bulletin. “This very weekend I will be presiding at the funeral of my dear friend, “brother,” Jerry Koen. Friends and family will gather at Saint Mary Star of the Sea in Beverly, Massachusetts. This is where I met Jerry, his beloved wife, Sally, and their five sons in 1981. God blessed us with forty plus years of friendship, being family to one another and all those moments every family experiences. These days and years have all gone by too quickly for me. They are filled with gifts of love that I will be ever grateful for today and for as long as I might live. Many years ago, a very dear friend gifted me with a book I have never forgotten. It is entitled, “The Precious Present.” It is a good reminder along with this weekend’s scriptures (Week Two is as relevant as Week One was) to keep ourselves focused and present to the precious present of this day. Jerry and Sally have given me this even having me “live in their home” (me casa, su casa) for decades. They and our faith in Jesus have blessed us to know our eternal home is where one day we shall reside forever. God’s peace to you Jerry as you are now reunited with Sally. Thank you for all your love.” Once in a while some things are worth repeating. I hope those of you who are reading this message understand my repetition. Love does bear repeating when you have been blessed by unbelievable people in your life. I am blessed. You are too! Father Rob

