December 7, 2025

December 3, 2025

Dear Friends,

 

I still have a handwritten calendar. I have an iPhone that I still could learn about its functions. I still have deadlines that come at me quickly, particularly this time of year from bulletin publishers and others. I never wanted to be a proofreader. As a Staff, everyone is given the opportunity to proofread the communication that is forthcoming from our office, me included. Oh, I cringe at that task.

 

So, I was ahead of myself by a week and didn’t catch it (nor did any proofreaders) that I was ahead of myself with last week’s bulletin, parish email, etc.

 

It’s Advent. I love this liturgical season and I try to slow down, encourage others to do the same in the midst of what these four weeks ( if actually we get a full four weeks) to just “be” and prepare for what is most essential, the celebration and recognition of what it means to have the Son of God come into our midst.

 

With deadlines, and other responsibilities, I said I wasn’t going to be with you the First Sunday of Advent.

Update, I was and I am not with you this Second Sunday of Advent.

 

This weekend we focus on peace. I need it. I’m going to go all out and think you need it as well.

Yes, the Peace of Christ that brings to the world relational peace to all.

 

SO, please bear with me and I will repeat what I shared in the last bulletin.

 

“This very weekend I will be presiding at the funeral of my dear friend, “brother,” Jerry Koen. Friends and family will gather at Saint Mary Star of the Sea in Beverly, Massachusetts. This is where I met Jerry, his beloved wife, Sally, and their five sons in 1981. God blessed us with forty plus years of friendship, being family to one another and all those moments every family experiences. These days and years have all gone by too quickly for me. They are filled with gifts of love that I will be ever grateful for today and for as long as I might live.

 

Many years ago, a very dear friend gifted me with a book I have never forgotten. It is entitled, 
“The Precious Present.” It is a good reminder along with this weekend’s scriptures (Week Two is as relevant as Week One was) to keep ourselves focused and present to the precious present of this day. Jerry and Sally have given me this even having me “live in their home” (me casa, su casa) for decades. They and our faith in Jesus have blessed us to know our eternal home is where one day we shall reside forever. God’s peace to you Jerry as you are now reunited with Sally. Thank you for all your love.”

 

Once in a while some things are worth repeating. I hope those of you who are reading this message understand my repetition.

Love does bear repeating when you have been blessed by unbelievable people in your life. 

 

I am blessed. You are too!

Father Rob

 

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September 13, 2026

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September 6, 2026

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Dear Friends, This weekend leads us into Monday celebrating Labor Day. Mass will be celebrated at 9AM at Transfiguration. This day we acknowledge the dignity of work for all people. Those who still work, may we thank the Lord for what they provide for all of us. Let us also thank those blessed to be retired for their contributions they gave us over the years. May everyone enjoy a safe and enjoyable holiday. Some students have returned to school this past week and others will be returning this week. I pray for all our students at every level of education, teachers, professors, support staffs and everyone involved in the administration and care for our students. May we all keep them in prayer for a blessed year of learning, accomplishments that will enrich their lives, and for the safety of all. God bless these individuals! And to all who are reading this brief message, May God’s blessing be with you! Father Rob